When Adnan met Christina, two people with their eyes on the stars turned their focus to one another.
When Adnan met Christina, two people with their eyes on the stars turned their focus to one another. Christina:On the first day of a professional development program in Nashville, we did a teacher role-playing activity. I was sitting next toAdnan, and my role-play card read, "You are a ‘100 percent’ student. You follow directions and pay attention."Adnanshowed me his card: "You are enamored with the person next to you and are trying to flirt with him/her while the teacher gives the lesson." He drew hearts on my paper. Adnan:During an icebreaker activity, we played "Two Truths and a Lie." I found out that Christina got her pilot's license before she got her driver's license. I remember thinking, "Who is this person? I want to get to know her more." Adnan:Christina talked about how much she likes food that matches the season, and how she was excited for a dinner that tasted like fall. I found a restaurant that had a perfect seasonal menu. Christina:We ate butternut-squash-filled pasta and talked until the restaurant closed. Christina:Adnanquickly became my best friend. But it was when he came to Colorado with me for my sister's high school graduation that I could see us spending our lives together. Despite not being a runner, he eagerly joined my sisters and me for a10Kwe do annually. He made me laugh the whole way, particularly when he stopped to enjoy a cupcake. Adnan:Christina's dedication to always improving is infectious; you just want to be a better version of yourself because of her. Christina:We flew to Colorado to introduce our parents over a long weekend. Before his parents arrived in town,Adnantook me to dinner at a restaurant that overlooks Boulder, my hometown. At the end of dinner, he proposed. The family introduction turned into a family celebration. We began planning a wedding that would blend our cultures. Adnan:You'll have to take Christina's word for it. I blacked out due to excitement and nerves.How’d you meet?
What was the first date like?
How did you know this person was the one for you?
What trait do you love in your partner?
How did the proposal go down?
Adnan and Christina kicked off their wedding celebrations with a nikah, part one of their Islamic wedding ceremony.
Christina:We’ll be traveling to Italy in the fall for our delayed honeymoon. Italy is a special place for me; my grandfather is from there. I'm excited to share withAdnanparts of my heritage and family culture. I look forward to when I'm able to go to Kashmir, India, with him and see where he is from. Adnan:The 1997sci-fimovieContact. When Christina brought it up, I was honestly just astounded other people had seen the movie, let alone that it had an impact on someone else's life. My inner voice was shouting, “You get me! You’re my people!” Christina:WhenAdnanand I first had dinner together as colleagues, I referenced the movie as one of my favorites and a formative experience in my life. He pulled out his phone and showed me it was one of a few movies that he owned. Adnan:I've always been fascinated by space and the idea of constantly looking upward. The movie explores the interplay and conflict between faith and reason and how faith can take many shapes, which is something very personal for me. Christina:I was determined as a young girl to be an astronaut and be the first person to walk on Mars. I started taking flying lessons when I was 10, all with the ambition of becoming an astronaut. Jodie Foster's character inContactis a brilliant, determined, and brave female scientist. The film both intrigued and scared me, so for the time being, I decided to stick to Earth. I still enjoy flying when I can.Any special trips together?
What’s your “couple thing”?
Adnan:Christina's family is incredibly thoughtful when it comes to supporting and celebrating each other. I've learned a lot about what it means to be a consistent and meaningful presence as a family member. I also get so excited to join in the family's wonderful Christmas traditions, from Christmas Eve dinner to the still-in-your-pajamas ceremony of unwrapping gifts Christmas morning. Christina:I've learned a lot fromAdnan'sfamily about the history of Kashmir andAdnan'sjourney with his family to the United States. What I love and appreciate the most is how open and willingAdnan'swhole family and theDesicommunity have been in welcoming, teaching, and including me in their lives and in Islamic traditions. From what we display around our apartment to how we celebrate holidays and more, we continue to grow and learn and form our own blended culture. Christina:Maybe avoid going on dates where you might run into students. Once, we saw one of my students at a family-style restaurant where we were going to be seated at the same table. My student became really shy and ducked behind her mom. To make her feel more comfortable, we let others go ahead of us in line so wewouldn’t be seated together. When I saw her Monday at school, she asked me why I was with Mr.Pirzadaon a Sunday.What have you learned from each other’s families and cultures that you especially appreciate?
Any advice for otherTFAcouples?
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